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Please check out the pictures at the bottom of this page
This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, Eugene "Baby Gene" Poitra who was born in North Dakota on August 22, 1975 and passed away on November 27, 2003 at the age of 28. We will remember him forever. We will never forget his laugh, we will never forget his smile, we will never forget his face. Baby Gene was kind-hearted.
He loved to do things with the family, especially the kids. The kids all have their stories that they share with us every now and then about Uncle Baby Gene. They love to look at the pictures that we have of him. It brings smiles to their faces.
If you knew Baby Gene, you would know the kind of person he was. When you think back about all the crazy things that he did it makes you smile, and laugh. Everyone has a story or two tp tell about him. He was the kind of person who kept bugging you and things until he got what he wanted. But what we would give now to have all that back again, no one will ever know.
Baby Gene passed away on Thanksgiving morning, November 27, 2003 from a tragic car accident. The police came to our parents' house about 6:30 in the morning, telling them that Baby Gene had been in a car accident and that they needed to get to the hospital because he wasnt doing very well. I got the call from Joelle telling me what had happened. So Curt and I met my parents at the hospital. When we got there we had to wait in the waiting room for about 15 minutes, until a cop came out and told my mom and dad that they can go in. I remamber they were'nt even in there for a minute, and my dad came running out and telling me and Curt "No more Baby Gene, he's gone!!" It was like I went weak, and I started getting dizzy. I jumped up and started to hug and cry on my dad. The hardest part of it all was going into that room where my mom was sitting and seeing her and watching my dad cry.
People say that it gets easier as the years go by. But we have found that very hard to believe. NOTHING has gotten easier. You just learn to live with it, and to deal with it. Its something that we find ourselves thinking about every single day. Theres always something there that will be a reminder of our brother and son.

Who You'd Be Today By: Kenny Chesney
Sunny days seem to hurt the most I wear the pain like a heavy coat I feel you everywhere I go See you smile, I see your face I hear you laughing in the rain Still can't believe your gone
It ain't fair you died to young Like a story that had just begun But death tore the pages all away God knows how I miss you All that I've been through Just knowing, no one can take your place Sometimes I wonder, Who you'd be today
Would you see the world Would you chase your dreams Settle down with a family I wonder what would you name your babies Somedays the skies so blue I feel like I can talk to you And I know it might sound crazy
Sunny days seem to hurt the most I wear the pain like a heavy coat The only thing that gives me hope Is that I know I'll see you again someday
THE BROKEN CHAIN
We little knew that morning that God was going to all your name,
In life we loved you dearly, in death we do the same.
It broke our hearts to lose you, you did not go alone,
For part of us went with you, the day God called you home.
You left us peaceful memories, your love is still our guide,
And though we cannot see you, you are always at our side.
Our family chain is broken, and nothing seems the same,
But as God calls us one by one, the chain will link again.
--Author Unknown
Do not stand at my grave and weep; I am not there, I do not sleep. I am a thousand winds that blow. I am the diamond glints on snow. I am the sunlight on ripened grain. I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush I am the swift uplifting rush Of quiet birds in circled flight. I am the soft stars that shine at night. Do not stand at my grave and cry; I am not there, I did not die. Mary Frye

One More Day With You
By: Diamond Rio
Last night I had a crazy dream A wish was granted just for me
It could be for anything
I didn’t ask for money Or imagine Malibu I simply wished one more day with you
One more day, one more time One more sunset, maybe I’d be satisfied
But then again, I know what it would do Leave me wishing still, one more day with you
First thing I’d do is pray for time to cry
I’d unplug the telephone, keep the TV off I’d hold you every second,
Say a million I love you's That’s what I’d do with one more day with you One more day, one more time One more sunset, maybe I’d be satisfied
But then again, I know what it would do
Leave me wishing still, one more day with you
IF TEARS COULD BUILD A STAIRWAY AND MEMORIES WERE A LANE I WOULD WALK RIGHT UP TO HEAVEN TO BRING YOU HOME AGAIN NO FAREWELL WORDS WERE SPOKEN NO TIME TO SAY GOODBYE YOU WERE GONE BEFORE I KNEW IT AND ONLY GOD KNOWS WHY MY HEART STILL ACHES WITH SADNESS AND SECRET TEARS STILL FLOW WHAT IT MEANT TO LOSE YOU NO ONE WILL EVER KNOW" Anonymous

We Shall Meet Again If I should leave this world Without a warning, And not even whisper a fond farewell, Grieve not for one more message From the lips that God has stilled. But just remember me with love And prayers for my soul's journey To that fair land beyond life's tears. For I have believed with all my heart In its existence, and I know that God is good, for He has come to me Through the life of Him whose very Garment I have sought to touch. It may be lonely, and I hope you miss me Just a little, because I have loved so deeply Forgive me if I have ever hurt you And remember me for what I longed to be. Have faith that I am nearer than Your dreams and fondest longings. For the God of love shall keep all Kindred spirits close together, Though the misty vale between This world and that to come Keeps us from each other's sight For a few precious moments. Whisper softly that you love me And it shall linger on within my soul Until you come. Say not good-bye, For on some bright tomorrow We shall meet again.


  



To my sisters, from heaven.
I just wanted you to know.
That I'll be with you wherever you go.
I've gotten my wings and learned how to fly.
And I'll dry your tears whenever you cry.
Though I've went away and it seems we're apart.
You will forever be my soul and my heart.
The love that we shared will not go astray.
For deep in my heart it will always stay.
You held me close when I was filled with pain.
And your smile gave me sunshine when my life filled with rain.
You guided me when no one else could.
You protected me when no one else would.
We've shared so much that mere words can't express how knowing you has made me feel truly blessed.
So please dear sister, fret not for me, for now my soul is truly free.
So think of me often, as much as you can.
And I'll always be there to hold your hand.
I'll be your angel and guide you through life.
I'll give you comfort through torment and strife.
So thanks dear sister again and again, thank you always for being my sister and my friend.
by Reginald Bush
After Glow I’d like the memory of me to be a happy one. I’d like to leave an after glow of smiles when life is done, I’d like to leave an echo whispering softly down the ways, Of happy times and laughing times and bright and summer days. I’d like the tears of those who grieve, to dry before the sun, Of happy memories that I leave When life is done.
Until we meet again, may God Hold you in the palm of his hand.
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